Delocroix, Born To Release

Wednesday, December 14, 2005

Breakup

Introduction

Well recently i juz broke up with my gf... the reason?? Oh...cuz u r not christian...
Well of course my ex-gf was too sweet to be telling me that straight at my face. But she did, indirectly. She did... she even asked me, ever thought of being a christian... and my reply to her was.. "no and dun ask me why cuz i dunno" although that was wat i said, wat i thought was different.. i knew very well that if i was willing to convert, i can continue with her and her parents will accept me becuz they did liked me during our first parents meeting with them..
But if only converting was that easy as it sounds.. to many it may be easy but me it aint... i was born a buddhist, all my life a buddhist, and worst still every single person in my family tree is a buddhist.

The Question

This led me to think again.. is it a must for 2 persons' religion to match b4 they can be couples.. isit?? The question is why?? Come on, we are like living in the 21st century now, interacial relationships is possible why cant there be inter-religion relationships?? Is similar religion background really that important in a relationship??

I asked a few christian frenz of mine, about their views about a relationship with someone whose religion is not the same as theirs. Their ans is simple a big NO. They only consider the guy if a christian like them.. Of course not all of them are like that, i have a handful of frenz that are in a relationship with someone of a diff religion as themself..

Just my tots, no harm meant, but i think that the idea of using religion as one of the requirement is ridiculous and unreasonable. A relationship to me, is one that concerns with whether or not the party concern hav feelings to each other.. its not becuz u are this religion and i am this religion so yea we can be together although i hate u to the core and then in the other extreme, i love u alot but u are not my religion so sorry... imagine having someone to tell u that.. how wud u feel??

Wat i think relationships are

Relationship is a bond that brings 2 persons' destiny together, its something thats is mutual and shud not be controlled by religion and much less parents.. i always like this sentence thats translated from mandrin is" who i want to marry is up to me, ultimately is I who us marrying not u parents".

Ending Note

I failed once and i am not gonna let it fail the next time .. to all reading, hold on to ur relationships as though they are ur life.. dun let any obstacle hinder the growth of the relationship, be it something as big as religion, parents, or something as small as a quarrel... hold it tight and treasure every opportunity u have with someone u love or like..

And those who are still single as in those have not walk into a relationship b4.. treasure every opportunity given, look for signs... when i say look it does not mean juz look with ur eyes.. look here means looking using ur heart... and when such signs come... take ur chance being rejected is better than forever not knowing.. for now thats how i feel...

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Till the end of time, I love | 10:04 PM